I had a very deep discussion with some of my girls the other day.. I am a woman like them, and like women sometimes tend to be; also sensitive and fragile. But despite this we are strong. Because of this we are strong. Use your character, and build your empire with* it. Together with who you are. That is powerful women to me. Not to be anything else than what they are. Without compromise.
The truth is, nothing is easy, but yet we tell ourselves that things aught to come to us without hard work. Without headache, or broken bones… Why do I hear this all the time from people around me? Why do I hear this from the ghosts in my head?
In fighting we tend to get better each time we fall, in skiing we have to fall in order to get alot better.. In fact.. we fall, knowing it is THE WAY to get better. In the gym is is the exercise we do to exhaustion that makes us feel something! And get stronger. Break down and build up, break down and build up. Like a wise man once said; It ant about how hard you hit, its about how hard you can get hit and still get back up moving forward.
Why does the mind not cinsider this in other spectras if life ? We expect no boundaries, hard work blood or tears…
Success is not managing only what you already can do . It is pushing yourself to that point you barely manage what you think you cannot do. To do more, to achieve more, to fight harder and work till you fingers bleed. That is how you gain results, that is how you repsect, from others but most importantly to yourself. You gotta do what you gotta do, and in the end.. to be truly realistic here.. Its all about making a choice. Life and reaching where you want to go is marely a decision.
I expect hard work. I expect to bleed till my knees bend. ( Somehow just because this is something I take for granted wothout complaining about it, people seem to believe my results in everything I do, come for free. It. does. not. ) I am a fighter, and I always push myslef to do a little more than expected, to give a little more than given and to proceed both mine and others expectations of me. I am scared, but bravery, is about doing it anyway.
Dream your life, life your dream. If you want to be someone capable of living your life completely on your own terms.. al you gotta to, is do it.
// Ida *